TheABC's of Friendship Always be honest, would you want THEM to lie to you Be there when they need you, or you may wind up alone. Cheer them on; we all need encouragement now and then. Don't look for their faults, even if you have none. Encourage their dreams; what would we be without them? Forgive them; you just MAY do something wrong sometime. Get together often; misery loves company, so does glee. Have faith in them; the human animal is remarkable. Include them; you may need to be included sometime Just be there when they need you. Know when they need a hug..... and couldn't you use one? Love them unconditionally; that is the ONLY condition. Make them feel special, because aren't we ALL special? Never forget them; who wants to feel forgotten? Offer to help, and know when "No thanks" is just politeness Praise them honestly and openly. Quietly disagree; noisy NO's make enemies. Really listen; a friendly ear is a soothing balm. Say you're sorry; don't let them assume it. Talk frequently; communication is important. Use good judgment. Verbalize your feelings! Wish them luck, hopefully good! Xamine your motives before you "help" out. Your words count; use them wisely. Zip your lips when told a secret. By following these ABC's as often as you are able, you SHOULD live a LONG and friend-filled life. ..best wishes